ah, the insult

what a profound and strange game it is. to one moment be in yourself or at some other thought and in the next to be distracted and feel a rage rising up within.… Continue reading →

Addiction – a warm place within trying not to turn cold

if addiction is a vacation from reality which reality did you escape from? from things which are real like curiosity and imagination or from the world made of rules which created the box… Continue reading →

the world changes when you change – extreme suffering and the way to a better life

if you’ve never had a good life then what does it really mean? how to get there? where to begin? you don’t need to know where you’re going you just need to understand… Continue reading →

am i blue? by Alice Walker

The following short story was banned in 1994 by the California School Board for an unusual reason; it was said to be “anti-meat eating” and inappropriate to 10th graders for implying an alternate… Continue reading →

peace

conflict begins within trying to change others is a source of conflict can you end the conflicts around you without ending the conflict within you? are you at peace with yourself? when you’re at… Continue reading →

did you hear that?

examine insults, judgment, rules, and beliefs then observe very young children and you discover that you didn’t doubt yourself until someone taught it as an idea to you. suffering is natural. but words… Continue reading →

self awareness has several parts

heal your wounds be true to yourself know the difference between your true self and the person you were taught to be discover what works for you heal your wounds when you feel… Continue reading →

Reasons life is becoming more difficult (Part 3) – religion

the purpose and core teaching of all religions is to put you in harmony with yourself so that you can move in harmony with the world and find inner peace but many churches… Continue reading →

secrets

if six billion people each have a secret how many secrets are there? not six billion maybe there are only six thousand the character of your country city community and family create the judgments… Continue reading →

is there a clear boundary between peace and conflict?

maybe war and peace seem to have a clear boundary between them common things like ambition profit revenge and belief are also powerful movitations for war only revenge has negative intentions do you… Continue reading →

how you can heal yourself and still have loyalty to loved ones who harm you

” I stopped loving my father a long time ago. What remained was the slavery to a pattern.” – Anais Nin “My mother just couldn’t deal with life. She had a husband who… Continue reading →

you’re the answer to the question

you’re the answer to which question? every question is it okay for me to…? (fill in the blank with anything you want) can I….? should I…? is it okay to….? the answer is… Continue reading →

Yes and No is AWAKE AND BLINDNESS

serenity is deeply rooted in reality but in the west we’re becoming rooted in the fight against reality reality is everything but you teach each other say no to many parts of it… Continue reading →

religion and reality – part II – commands and character

Do you hold your breath 6 nights a week then breathe on the seventh day? When religion is not in harmony with reality then you live two separate lives But you are not… Continue reading →

conflict and harmony – and the way to find meaning in life

harmony isn’t the absence of conflict sharks eagles and lions move in perpetual conflict with others and perpetual harmony with all of nature they’re motivated by necessity to be in harmony means to… Continue reading →